I'm not sure what to take on this. I can tell you from experience....the need to be a mother is a VERY powerful thing. I would have done just about anything to have a child and yes...I suppose you could say I was obsessed. In some women, there may never be need to be a mother...some a little stronger...and obsessed, like me and it seems, your aunt. She may be willing to sacrifice herself, so to speak, to be able to have a child, any way she can. Please don't abandon her.

That is what I thought, that she is not mentally stable and the instability is making her make the wrong choices.
I know that in a realtionship nobody else has to get involve, but when she did what she did it's hard to saty away from her. I only want what is best for her and apparently she doesn't want that, I'm sure I will get over it, but is going to take me a while :(