sorry you are going through this
 

I had a similar situation happen with me and Eric (hubby, he wasn't cheating...long....long story). I am not a prude but, I have morals. I believe that a man and woman can be friends, as long as that is as far as it gets. Sometimes that line gets crossed. I would confront your husband with your concerns and then I would confront her. It may be very innocent but, the fact that he is changing his routine with you (the calling you ) and has her number in his phone under "hottie" would not sit well with me....AT ALL..


I do hope you come back to see that we really do care...like some have said...it depends on what time you posted...most of us have jobs and can't respond right away....I am not on here as much as I am on YT...I need to come here more often..


Good Luck to you...I hope everything turns out ok.

Brenda

I agree with what everyone said. I would not put up with the crap. He is either in the marriage or not. Its called respect. I would tell him to make a choice, but you have to be prepared for what choice he makes.

He would not like it very much if the tables were turned.

You need to get to the bottom of this, whether you think you're hubby will tell you the truth or whether you think the only way to find out the truth is by confronting the girl, you need to find out what is going on and then make a decision about your future.

Only gave us 2 hrs to reply? This isn't a 24/7 staffed forum.

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