Haley, your letter was great,:bravo: you took the high road. :thumbup: You're a great Mom!!
Micah is a lucky little boy to have you for a Mom. :teddy:

Thank you, i just got so sick of his family walking all over me. Micah was so sick that day, and she invited her family over there, and another thing while she is entertaining her family (and there drinking all my pop and eating my food too) no one is watching Micah !!! i am still so pissed off its unreal !!!

OH and another thing too, some of the people that she invites to my home, don't ever come over when my husband and I are at home... that what really gets on my nerves too.. they eat all my left overs, drink everything in sight.. i just got so sick of it!

Ok i feel better now, got that off my chest !!!!

I think that you did a good job on your letter too. It's very hard to write a letter when you're upset but it turned out well. I'm sorry that you're having troubles with your in-laws. I have trouble with mine too. Any more I just keep my distance. I hope that your Mother-in-law gets over it and things are better between the two of you. Good luck!

Haley that was a great letter I agree to, its a shame that your MIL and family missed out on the babys 1st birthday. To hold a grudge like that is crazy. This is your home and she should respect your wishes. I hope that she wakes up and if not she will miss out in her grandsons life. A real shame.. Good luck..

Thanks everyone, she is missing out, she don't even have the balls to pick up the phone and talk to me, she is a spoiled little brat.. she is acting like a child..
we'll i did my part, and the ball is in her corner now.. I'm just going to keep my distance and see what happens.. i been interviewing babysitters all week, talk about something that is very hard to do... trusting someone with your child while you go to work, it's breaking my heart. but i have to get over it, i don't want my child in daycare, i looked at some of them, left crying.. to many kids not enough supervision for me.. the poor little kids were getting pushed around by the bigger kids. and they also have school age kids getting on and off the bus for school..they don't watch those kids good, there just in it for the money i think. that's not for my son, he had private care all his life. i just can't do it.....

Thanks Diana, But if this woman don't get her way she pouts like a baby, this woman never had to work a day in her life. her husband always took care of her and spoiled her, so she thinks its her way or no way at all, and she pushes my husband around like that, but sorry i'm not taking her s*** anymore, i put up with it since Micah was born, and she just pushed me until i exploded... i can't take it anymore, imagine going home for lunch to check on your sick child with about 4 people in your house drinking coffee and no one is watching your sick child... i flipped...

Sometimes Haley, that by sticking to the main point, you can actually say more my saying less.:)

your right Janet, it's just bugging me, i have to learn to let things go sometimes, my child is surrounded by people that love him dearly, and i Thank God for my family and friends.