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Meg 09-07-2006 08:12 PM

Are you happy with your body?
 
Women always seems to have body issues-- I thought since this is Diet and Heath, that we could talk about what we think of our bodies, diets we have done, and what you'd like to achieve for your body in the future.


I have about 10 pounds to lose to get where I'd feel extremely comfortable. I am in not overweight, but I am a little squishy in the butt thigh area. I gain my weight in my lower half and then it starts to creep up to my love handles and stomach if I let it. :o

I wear a size 6- but right now they are TIGHT 6's vs baggy 6s they should be. I'd love to be a comfortable 4.

Lindsey 09-08-2006 12:55 AM

This is gonna be an interesting thread! No matter how perfect another person thinks your body is, everyone has problems with themselves. I have friends who tell me I could model, and other friends who call me "Spaghetti Arms" When I was growing up people called me a monkey because of my long skinny limbs. I've always been a little self-conscious about my arms, but if I try to buff them up at all, they just look like pure muscle, which is a look I don't want on myself, so I settle for the spaghetti.

Gina 09-08-2006 04:07 AM

I agree no one is happy with their bodies. I have gained 8 pds. myself in the last two years. I can't seem to take it off. I am still a sz. 6 but I fill them out a bit..lol Girls it gets harder as you get older to lose it. I need to drink more water but thats the problem I can't..lol I also need to walk, I never get the chance. See I know what I must do...lol It is frustrating...

rivermom 09-08-2006 04:23 AM

I don't like it! That pretty much sums it up, LOL. :(

The mental anquish that I see most women go through about there own body image is horrible. Id really like to see a change with all that. Society doesn't help either with the glamourous expectations it throws at us day after day. Not to mention the seeds it plants in our teens minds. It's a viscious cycle that I hope to see come to an end some day.

Kimberley 09-08-2006 04:47 AM

Happy? No...I need to loose some weight and tone up but between work, house stuff, running kids all over the place, I hardly have time to scratch my ass!

Janet 09-08-2006 06:12 AM

I hate my body. When I was younger it was pretty damn good if I do say so myself. I think if I was happier I would've kept it in check, but hey. I'm overweight by about 80-85 lbs, but plan on working on it soon.

In most of the posts we've all mentioned "time", but look at us sitting here on the computer. We all really have time...we just choose not to do it. I need to get off my butt!!!

Miniflash 09-08-2006 06:18 AM

I am learning to connect a little I seem to have a disassociation of the body maybe because of illness I am not sure but I feel this way about all bodies much of it because I dont see people as bodies .Anyways I need some body adjusting haha so I am in process .

hle_625 09-08-2006 06:29 AM

I think no matter what everyone is not happy about something! Im a size 3 but I still need to tone up!

Mandy 09-08-2006 06:46 AM

Nope i'm not happy with my body, never have been, and never will be! I'll always find something wrong with it.

ginab 09-08-2006 07:31 AM

nope dont like my body, but my b/f does, thats what matters to me..
i cant do a dam thing about my skinny chicken legs soooooo...

ice queen 09-08-2006 07:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kimberley
Happy? No...I need to loose some weight and tone up but between work, house stuff, running kids all over the place, I hardly have time to scratch my ass!

girl i almost choked on my drink...too funny!!! i tried to work out on my treadmill last week and broke my dang toe-maybe it's a sign that i'm supposed to have a jello butt!!!;)

ginab 09-08-2006 07:40 AM

ive been walking on these legs for 44 years, if that aint working nothing will

ice queen 09-08-2006 07:41 AM

i don't like my body-i've had two kids and my stomach will never be flat again, not to mention the stretchmarks. i am satisfied with my body size except for the fact that i look like a toothpick with a gut. i have no boobs and no butt. i have long legs and i can still wear my high school jeans but i have to stuff all the extra skin in them-gross! i just am flabby and out of shape. i have talked my hubby into getting me a boob job but lately i have been thinking about a tummy tuck instead. he says i'm getting my tig-bitties first cuz he's tired of hearing me complain about being so flat-chested...i mean there is nothing there i wear a 34 double aa and i feel about as sexy as a limp french fry and he is always buying me those hooker clothes at the adult store and i refuse to wear them because i feel like a dang 11 year old in them.:( has any one on this site had cosmetic surgery please tell me the pros and cons of breast augmentation and tummy tucks.....thanks ya'll:D

ice queen 09-08-2006 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by ginab
nope dont like my body, but my b/f does, thats what matters to me..
i cant do a dam thing about my skinny chicken legs soooooo...

don't feel bad about having skinny legs...my mom used to tell me i had jay-bird legs in high school-can ya feel the love?anyway i finally got some calves going now and my hubby loves my legs...all i did was when i was washing dishes or whatever i would just stand on my tip-toes and go up and down till my calves starting burning....it really works!!! it took me about two months to shape those sticks up and girl they look good in the high heels-i only wear them for my hubby otherwise it's flip-flops and crocs!!!;)

ginab 09-08-2006 08:00 AM

that wont work i know it

ice queen 09-08-2006 09:58 AM

well shoot ginab...i guess i'm gonna have to figure out something else to help you but like you said before if your b/f likes 'em then that's all that matters!!!my hubby says he loves my legs esp. when they are by my ears:D :D :D have you tried jogging or oohhhh taking muscle builder shakes or whatever they are called. i used to drink those when i was in high school cuz everybody thought that i was anorexic/bulemic cuz i only weighed 98 lbs. i had a fast metabolism growing up- i looked like a piece of spaghetti-still do except for my belly flab from my two babies plus my love handles...wonder what kind of pasta i look like now???hehehe!!

Cribal 09-08-2006 09:58 AM

I guess like others said we'll probly never be happy. I use to hate wearing a bathing suit and now I'm thinking what was wrong with me. I was sooo skinny a few years ago but NOT anymore.... I would give anything to loose 20 lbs. I guess I would give up anything but food and soda. LOL... I love food too much and I can't go without a coke or two a day. I think I would loose alot of weight if I would just get out and do something daily but my lazy ass won't do it..LOL

Crystal

Cribal 09-08-2006 10:01 AM

Oh yea... a plus with gaining weight is my boobs and butt are huge now. I guess I am lucky in that way. My weight doesn't just go to one part of my body. My butt and boobs are bigger but along with that came a belly, thighs and huge love handles...

ginab 09-08-2006 10:03 AM

it dont bother me too much anymore and if my b/f dont like it, i can show him the door and he knows it....at 44 yrs old there aint nothing i can or wil do about it..
so i look like an egg with legs.. humpty dumpty... kidding.. at least i got boobs

RLC12345678 09-08-2006 01:49 PM

I have a very small frame, but I have some junk in the trunk, if you know what I mean! :p I have VERY small bones. I'm 5'3" and weight about 110-120, depending on the day. I would LIKE to get in really good shape and down to about 105. Weight comes off of me easily, but finding the time and energy to do it is a whole different ball game. PLUS, I HATE and I mean HATE eating healthily. It's bad. :rolleyes:

Danielle 09-08-2006 02:05 PM

I wish i could say I was, but I'm not. :(

Amber_lv 09-08-2006 03:01 PM

I used to be a size 4 untill i got pregnant with my first baby and then i bloated up and he messed up my metabolism and i just can't seem to loose it no matter how hard i try!

Khristine 09-10-2006 11:23 AM

i hate my body..

when i was a freshman in highschool i was at my prime.. i was SO in shape and had a really nice toned body if i must say so myself.. i was very active playing basketball on the dance team and all that fun stuff..

well when i met my bf (now my fiance) ... i started taking the shot, its birth control called depo provera.. and thats when my life was ruined..

i took the shot for a year and did not notice any of the weight gain till it was too late.. when i was a freshman i was 100 lbs and i was toned and curvy in all the right places .. (ahh memories lol)..

then in that year i was on the shot, i had gained 50 pounds.. yes i was 5'0 tall and 150lbs it was not a pretty site to see at all..

well of course my self esteem went down the drain.. so it wasnt until after highschool and after nursing school that i decided to lose some weight.. i started losing weight (of course by now i was off the stupid shot ughh!).. and i had finally gotten down to 115 lbs.. and then i got pregnant.. LOL..

and here i am again fat and ugly.. and to make matters worse, its only been 2 months.. and everyone keeps rubbing it in my face how fat i am..

between no sleep, always having to do something with my baby, either feeding, changing, showering etc or doing house duties like laundry, cleaning up my messy room.. i have barely any time to go to the gym.. but even though i am dead tired i still go.. but i just hate my body right now..

i hate hate hate hate hate it.. it makes me depressed thinking about it actually..

im hoping that i will lose this pregnancy fat fast.. not only for my sake.. but for everyone else who keeps torturing me about it..

my fiance is the only person who is so supportive of me.. i guess thats all that matters but i'd like to get to how my body was when we first met :o lol


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