Masterbation?
 

This thread is so I can say I did my part today & started a thread.

I don't know how to insert a poll or I would. Do you or don't you? If you do did it take you a while to get comfortable or did you just go for it?

I've never done & it personally makes me a little shy to even think about actually doing it. At the last toy party I went to I bought a little waterproof buddy that's still sitting in his package in the drawer, I just can't bring myself to do it.

What a thread huh?

There is NOTHING wrong IMO with self satisfication. And besides, I honestly feel we at times can please our ownselves better than with a partner.

I've never had issues personally with it, I began when I was a teen. Obviously I am not too shy to say so either, LOL.

I feel if you are not comfortable knowing your body and what feels good, then it makes it more difficult to know what you would like with your partner, or how to tell him.

Go for it. Glass of wine, hot bath, your waterproof buddy, lights down low, be alone, and ease your mind. :thumbup:

My husband plays ball on thurs. night maybe this thurs. I won't go & see if I can't work something out.

I agree!! I can imagine the "shyness" playing a role, but there's no one to watch you. It's only a good thing if you know your body, that way it's a lot easier to let your partner know your wants and needs :)

LMAO - After this thread gets going, there is going to be an awful lot of ladies from 4wt taking hot baths tonight. :p

I wanna add, it's GREAT with candle light :D :yelrotflmao: and don't forget a glass of champagne LOL

....and don't forget the pretty smelling candles!!!! LOL!

I do it I love it I recomend it LOL :thumbup: :eek:

Honey just treat it like you were a man taking you out on a date feed you get you drunk and take advantage of yourself lol

For sure!!!!!!!! :D

OMG!!! HERE WE GO AGAIN LORD.....

I've got to get out of this thread...help me, help me!!!!:eek:

I can't get out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek: :eek:

Where's my darn back key....:eek:

Hey!!!! Where is everybody??????:p

Ohhhhhh Lordy! Lordy! Any one have a good recipe???

I was always pretty bashful about this myself. (I was raised Catholic with all the guilt that comes along with it). It took my husband to coach me in this and he actually encourages me to do this for myself (of course he gets to peek;) ). Because of him, I bought a "toy". He is really open to all sorts of experiences and has taught me alot. I think it is important that you learn what feels good to you so that you can convey this to your partner.

lol Janet!!!

Before I was in my current relationship, I did it everyday. I always thought I was a sex fiend. I thought I was more like a man than a woman. Anyway, since I have been in this relationship, I can probably count on one hand how many times I have done it. Does touching yourself while having sex with someone else count?;)

OMG! There IS another website similar to this one for this kind of talk.:o I plead the fifth on this topic.

I know you weren't shy over there!!! LMAO!

Red In The Face A Little ??
 

I do believe our Janet is blushing. :o

ssssssshhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:o :o :o

:yelrotflmao: Oh my!!! You girls aew just too funny! LOL

LOL:D :D

My husband is even more shy than me about this stuff so that's not gonna happen. I'm so open about everything else I don't know why this gives me issues. I would imagine it's my upbringing also.

What???? You mean it doesn't really make you go blind????:omg: Who knew?;)

Oh Dear. Oh Dear....I just do not know what to say. I could just NEVER!!!

you girls are just too dam funny :)

Last night before going to bed I took a bath. (not for THOSE reasons) Lying there I was laughing outloud thinking of this thread. :yelrotflmao:

LMAO! Ive had a hard time today trying to stay serious, this thread kept crossing my mind hehehehe

And I am sure we are ALL curious to know, exactly what IS that website?! :p :p :p

LOL! I knew that question was going to get asked! Its topsecret ;)

Huh? and why is that?!

A secret??? I know it, i know it and I wanna tell. :p

Ok... so tell :D I'm all ears hahahahaha

Well, since Moderator says it's a secret, and it's her secret i will allow her to tell. But... I will give a hint.

Ok, we have what's here known as 4womentalk. So....think about it.

LOL! Go ahead, you can tell the "secret"

Tell me why I just went and visited that site!:eek: Janet don't go there girl!:D

Well Carolyn dear, what did you expect to see there? Chicken recipes?? :D

LOL! The secret is out;)

LMAO You crack me up soooo much at times. :D

Some "chickens are yummy" do i need to remind ya? :D :D :D :D