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DianaB 03-20-2007 07:42 PM

It's Time to be Worried!!
 
I had a scrapbook party at my home today and had a few friends over. My daughter (#1) and a friend were here for quite a bit earlier before the others showed up. My daughter, if you remember is the one who is pregnant, and I've been worried about. She came out of the bathroom and quietly said that she was spotting. After a little while it had stopped, but this is how all 3 of her miscarriages have started. I'm really worried, as I said before, she hemoraged (sp?) really bad the last time and was in the hospital several days and she took the miscarriage really hard. Please, please, please, pray for her and the baby. We are really believing that everything is going to be alright. It's really hard to be a Mom and watch your family go through hard times like this and we appreciate all of your prayers. Thanks guys!!!

Chandra Amaya 03-20-2007 07:56 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this Diana. How far along is she? I know it is almost impossible giving the history she has had but she needs to try & stress as little as possible. It is the worst thing for someone proned to miscarriage. I have been through this myself but was never more than 3 months along. My thoughts are with you, your daughter & family.

Mandy 03-21-2007 12:55 AM

Sorry to hear that Diana, lets hope all turns out ok this time! It is hard to see your family go thru hard times.
My thoughts & prayers are with you all. Try to stay positive, and please keep us posted.

Janet 03-21-2007 02:16 AM

Oh Diana!! I am sending prayers right this minute. Make sure she talks with her Dr. and to take it easy. Maybe she needs to stay off her feet for a few days. Hope everything works out for her and that the baby is safe.

Gina 03-21-2007 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet
Oh Diana!! I am sending prayers right this minute. Make sure she talks with her Dr. and to take it easy. Maybe she needs to stay off her feet for a few days. Hope everything works out for her and that the baby is safe.

Yes I agree with Janet let her get bed rest.. Your daughter is in in my prayers always...

Tink 03-21-2007 08:50 AM

{{{Diana}}} My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

DianaB 03-21-2007 09:00 AM

I haven't talked to her this morning because when she's having trouble she wants to be left alone. She's 10 weeks along, the same as she was with the last pregnancy. She won't call the doctor because she's been through this before and there's nothing that they can do. I know that bleeding doesn't always mean that there will be a miscarriage because I did that with my last daughter but it's not a good sign. She's been through so much with losing 3 already that it just breaks my heart. I know how she feels because I've had one miscarriage, but not 3. I'll keep you posted when I know anything.

Please keep her in your prayers. Her name is Amy. Thanks so much!

rivermom 03-21-2007 01:06 PM

I am really sorry for the worry you must be going through w/ your daugher. I am sending all my angels w/ prayers your way.

Please keep us posted.

DianaB 03-21-2007 04:34 PM

I talked to her earlier today and she was taking it easy. She had spotted some more before she went to bed last night but for now it's stopped. It's so hard not to worry.:(

rivermom 03-21-2007 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by DianaB
I talked to her earlier today and she was taking it easy. She had spotted some more before she went to bed last night but for now it's stopped. It's so hard not to worry.:(


That's a good thing about her spotting has stopped. Tonight she can rest and hopefully tomorrow everything will be ok.

Yes, I know it's hard not to worry. Place your worry in the angels hands Diana and rest your heart.

Thanks for keeping us posted.

AngieDoogles 03-21-2007 06:58 PM

I'm so glad it's stopped for now. I'm praying that things continue to go smoothly. *hugs*

Marilyn 03-21-2007 07:11 PM

So sad you and your daughter are going through this. Will be thinking of you and wishing for a successful pregnancy!!

cindy0721 03-21-2007 07:17 PM

aww... I 'm so sorry to hear about what happened./... glad it is getting better./.... sending my prayers

Chandra Amaya 03-22-2007 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by DianaB
I talked to her earlier today and she was taking it easy. She had spotted some more before she went to bed last night but for now it's stopped. It's so hard not to worry.:(

I had 2 miscarriages after my first child. I was told I would never be able to carry another child. I went back for my 6 week check up after the 2nd miscarriage to find out I was pg again. I laid on the couch depressed thinking I would lose another child for a month. at 4 months I finally started coming out of the depression. Today that daughter is 11 yrs old & very healthy. I also have 2 more that followed her. I know how scary it is. I've been there. But assure her & to let you know, that history & what doctors say about your chances of carrying mean nothing my last 3 kids are proof. My thoughts are with you both.

Tink 03-22-2007 09:33 AM

Well said Traci!

My oldest daughter had a terrible time with ovarian cysts and was told as a result, would likely have a lot of trouble concieving. She got pregnant right away, then miscarried. The dr told her it might have been a fluke and not to count on having babies. She now has 2 perfectly healthy daughters and proved the drs wrong.

They have to avoid giving false hope, but medicine is not an exact science, so they really don't know it all. God has plans of his own and even drs can't know what they are.

I'm still praying things turn out well for your daughter Diana.


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