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donna1990 12-30-2008 12:10 PM

Yorkietalk vs Women Talk
 
Just was checking on new posts on YT. So many like to judge, argue, etc.
I posted , that is why I enjoy our site more. Bet I will get blasted or we will get new members. I did mention that a lot of us have yorkies.:eek::eek::eek:

DianaB 12-30-2008 01:12 PM

I used to be on YT a lot too but there's only so much I want to say about my dog. It just got very repetitive. I tried to stay out of the arguments. I love being on here!!! Not only can I talk about my dog but my family, friends, home, and anything else I want to talk about!!!! It would be really cool to get some new members!!!

Janet 12-30-2008 05:30 PM

I agree Diana. I do hope some join and are nice. Some join and post a few times then don't come back. I hope the new ones that have joined lately will come and stay for awhile and get to know us. We need some new active members.

Marilyn 12-30-2008 08:24 PM

It's much better here than YT. The best thing I got from YT was an introduction to 4WT.

Janet 12-31-2008 05:39 AM

Same here....we may get slow at times, but I'd rather be here than any other forum. I do love another one for Yorkies, but 4WT is still the best with the best.

judy 12-31-2008 08:12 AM

YT used to be better. I have to say that I learned pretty much everything I know about yorkies from YT, and from the people I met there. There are many wonderful people there too.

I stopped going on when the fighting began to take over the site. There was rarely a thread on there that didn't have at least a nasty post. Many had several mean spirited posts. Some people, it began to feel like, went on there just to be negative. As it got worse, I realized that I do not like it there, and stopped going. There is a group of members there who are just not worth my attention.

Jessie found YT the day that Gracie Leigh died. She was so upset and wanted to find me a new dog right away. She didn't even know that I was a member. She googled yorkies and found YT. Some people were lovely to her, but the fourth or fifth post was so vile and uncalled for that I still would like to respond to that woman. I would love to tell her exactly what I think about her mean and negative nastiness.

This was Jessie's post:

"DOES ANYONE KNOW OF A YORKSHIRE TERRIER BREEDER WITHA A FEMALE READY TO COME HOME. TRAGEDY STRUCK OUR HOME TODAY. MY MOM JUST MOVED UP FFROM THE CITY TO BE NEAR US BECAUSE I HAVE MS AND THREE SMALL CHILDREN AND MY OWN 100+ ALASKAN MALAMUTE GOT LOOSE AND KILLED MY MOM'S PRECIOUS , BELOVED GRACIE LEE, 1 YEAR OLD YORKIE. WE ARE ALL IN SHOCK AND THE KIDS SAW THE WHOLE THING, I KNOW MY MOM AND ALTHOUGH SHE HAS MAX A TWO YEAR OLD YORKIE I KNOW THE DISTRACTIONOF TAKING CARE OF A NEW BABY WILL HELP TO PREVENT HER FALLING INTO A TERRIBLE DEPRESSION. SHE HAS NOT EVEN CLOSED ON HER CONDO AND ONLY MOVED HER FURNITURE UP LAST NIGHT, SHE WAS GOING TO STAY WITH US FOR 4 Dys until the closing. i FEEL SOOOOO GUILTY AS DOES MY OLDEST DAUGHTER BECAUSE SHE WAS HOLDING THE LEASH, WE ALL FEEL LIKE WE ARE IN SHOCK, BUT I FEEL THAT LOOKING FORWARD TO A NEW BABY NOT TO REPLACE THE FABULOUS GRACIE BUT TO FILL THE HOLE IN MY MOM'S HEART WILL HELP HER, PLEASE WRITE ME WITH ANY AND ALL SUGGESTIONS, I WILL DRIVE AS FAR AS 8 HOURS TO PICK UP THE PUPPY. WE ARE LOCATED IN DELAWRE COUNTY IN UPSTATE NEW YORK, JESSICA WRIGHT"

This was the response I am talking about:

"I'm sorry for your mom's loss, but to be honest, I don't know of anyone who would sell you a yorkie considering the risk of that happening again.

You really need to contact a dog behavior specialist to help your dog get over it's agression issues. You are fortunate that the dog was in your family and not a strsngers dog, or worse yet a child.

Dog agression should not be taken lightly.

I'm sorry if that souinds uncaring, because I do care, I care about the poor little dog that had to die unnecessarily. __________________

I went back on to post that Gracie had died and then to put up a memorial. Now, I'm done with them, except for a couple of sellers and breeders.

judy 12-31-2008 08:18 AM

By the way, I do not disagree with that person's basic opinion. It was just so inappropriate and not the time nor place for it. She was so unaffected by my daughter's grief that I found it astonishing.

It certainly wasn't the time for her to lecture anyone or to give her opinion.

donna1990 12-31-2008 11:05 AM

Yorkietalk vs Women Talk
 
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Originally Posted by judy (Post 84755)
By the way, I do not disagree with that person's basic opinion. It was just so inappropriate and not the time nor place for it. She was so unaffected by my daughter's grief that I found it astonishing.

It certainly wasn't the time for her to lecture anyone or to give her opinion.

That was very thoughtless of her to respond thay way.

I also learned a lot about yorkies from yt. Tricksie is my first and it was greatly appreciated.

Lyn 12-31-2008 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by donna1990 (Post 84688)
Just was checking on new posts on YT. So many like to judge, argue, etc.
I posted , that is why I enjoy our site more. Bet I will get blasted or we will get new members. I did mention that a lot of us have yorkies.:eek::eek::eek:

OK well here I am! I guess this is as good a place as any to introduce myself! I am a YT member, and have come here to see what life is like when it's not all about the furbabies!:D I like YT but really try hard to stay away from the drama and trouble threads. I like the pics and game threads the best! I am Abby2473 on YT....but my name is Linda, Lyn here because, well, that's what my siblings call me and I kind of like that ...;) (Abby is actually my cat's name)...Let's see, do I have to give a bio here? I'm married, work, we just bought our first house, have two Yorkies and I am, let's just say....not quite 50 yet...;) How am I doing so far?

AngieDoogles 12-31-2008 01:06 PM

Hi Lyn! The game and pic threads are about the only ones I post on as well. Too many controversial threads get out of hand and I prefer to stay away from drama.

Anyway, welcome to 4wt! I am 23 years old. I have two yorkies, two kittens and a wonderful hubby. I look forward to getting to know you better and seeing pics of your furbabies. :)

donna1990 12-31-2008 01:35 PM

Yorkietalk vs Women Talk
 
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Originally Posted by Lyn (Post 84766)
OK well here I am! I guess this is as good a place as any to introduce myself! I am a YT member, and have come here to see what life is like when it's not all about the furbabies!:D I like YT but really try hard to stay away from the drama and trouble threads. I like the pics and game threads the best! I am Abby2473 on YT....but my name is Linda, Lyn here because, well, that's what my siblings call me and I kind of like that ...;) (Abby is actually my cat's name)...Let's see, do I have to give a bio here? I'm married, work, we just bought our first house, have two Yorkies and I am, let's just say....not quite 50 yet...;) How am I doing so far?

Welcome to 4wt, Linda and Abby.
You are doing great.
:)

Gina 12-31-2008 02:03 PM

I don't go into YT anymore myself. Have been absent a few years people just got nasty over the years they all know it all. It was nice at one time at the begining it was not crowed at all. I do like our community like others mentioned we owe it to YT to introduce this community ....


Hi Lyn, and welcome ! :)

Lyn 12-31-2008 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by AngieDoogles (Post 84770)
Hi Lyn! The game and pic threads are about the only ones I post on as well. Too many controversial threads get out of hand and I prefer to stay away from drama.

Anyway, welcome to 4wt! I am 23 years old. I have two yorkies, two kittens and a wonderful hubby. I look forward to getting to know you better and seeing pics of your furbabies. :)

Thanks! It has taken forever to figure out how to do an avatar and profile page/album etc. on YT...now I have to do it here...:rolleyes:...hmmm...think I can cut and paste it all?:p

Lyn 12-31-2008 02:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gina (Post 84790)
I don't go into YT anymore myself. Have been absent a few years people just got nasty over the years they all know it all. It was nice at one time at the begining it was not crowed at all. I do like our community like others mentioned we owe it to YT to introduce this community ....


Hi Lyn, and welcome ! :)

Thanks!

Lyn 12-31-2008 02:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by donna1990 (Post 84781)
Welcome to 4wt, Linda and Abby.
You are doing great.
:)

Thanks!


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