[Janet]

I can understand Linda. I like having time to myself too. I don't understand, after all this time, why he won't take "something." It's better than nothing. Is he still able to draw unemployment?

You probably need to have a heart to heart. If he's not going to find work, no matter what it is, then he needs to keep that house spotless so you don't have to on your days off. He's probably doing like Rick did when he was out of work. On the computer all day trying to find jobs. I finally told him to get off his a$$ and beat the pavement, so he did. He was only out of work about 4-5 months I think, but I thought I was going to lose my mind with him around all the time.

You vent when ever you want okay, it's so much better than taking a ball bat to them...LOL