Oh my gosh! As I sat here and read each line I found my head just nod up and down with such agreement!!
My husband quit doing the barbecue years ago. I found myself standing next to him saying "flip this, cook that more, oh you cooked it too long, it's burning, that's nasty, etc". I think he found it just too irritating, too stressful on me to watch, so I kinda took over the task. Much much easier. Besides, I was already doing all the rest just like what the post said, so it didn't matter really just diving in and cooking the stuff too. LOL!!