[Marilyn]

Oh, Diana, I can soooo relate. My tree (live one) is bought and has been leaning against the outside of the house for 2 weeks. No decorating done at all except white lights lining the sidewalks and driveway in front. It's a subdivision requirement. Have not bought one Christmas present. Not sure even what to buy.

However, the wedding preparation is almost finished. Just need to buy punch cups, tiki torch oil, and a couple of pieces of black fabric. I bought two dresses to wear to the wedding. Will try them both on then Karen gets here this weekend and decide.

Today is fruitcake baking day. Every year I bake fruitcakes for friends and family. Last year I made 24 of various sizes, of course. This year, I was going to only make for us and very immediate family, however, Rex wants me to make for everyone again. They all look forward to it so much, so today will be marathon fruit cakes. I usually do it over a two week period.

Don't know if I'm sending Christmas cards this year. Usually send over 100, but something's gotta give.

I'm meeting the mother of the groom at a bakery this morning at 8 a.m. She ask me to be there with her when she orders the groom's cake. Karen would like for him to have a custom guitar shaped cake. He plays electric guitar, and she would like would be make in the shape and color of his favorite one.

Not sure if we are coming or going, but the wedding is less than two weeks away now. Guess I'll have the 23rd and 24th to prepare for Christmas. Crazy, crazy.

Hang in there Diana, things will come together, they always do.

What is the wedding date that you are working with? We have a good photographer who does fly to weddings. She lives in California, and some friends flew her here for their wedding. She is from Austin, so fortunately she was flying home for Christmas, and is coming a little early to shoot Karen's wedding. Her rates are reasonable, so a plane ticket and hotel may not be too much to pay. Just a thought. I'm sure you can find a good one in your area.

Take care everyone!!! and Merry Christmas!!!!