[DIANE W]

Hi Judy..... wow what news, I so understand how you are feeling I would be just the same.

I always take the sensible route though - maybe I am wrong in doing so? other people dont always live the sensible way and seem to do very well in life. I guess i am a typical Libran and always try to balance things out.

Judy i think you are doing the right thing in keeping your real feelings and opinions to yourself... and just agreeing.

Me on the other hand i really need to work on this, I always have to tell people what i think and give my opinions on things..... sometimes i wish i could just keep quiet (I do try... but then out it all comes). I wouldnt hurt anyone for the world, and am very diplomatic, but i just have to give my opinion and show another angle on things.

When your children are involved too it is very hard, as whatever age i think we still feel we know whats best for them, and dont like seeing them making any mistakes - it is very hard.

I think you are handling things really well, as for being there 100%, I think your son in law is asking an awful lot of you, of course you will be there for your family, and love and support them when needed, but you have a life as well.

I hope everything works out for all of you.