oh boy....poor baby!!! IMO it sounds like he is being selfish and using the meds as his excuse to not give you what you want...sex or a baby....i guess you could just wait till he's asleep and just help yourself!!!
Seriously maybe you should just sit down with him and tell him that you REALLY want to have a child. I know you probably already have but maybe you should give him an ultimatum....a fullfilling sex life for both of you and a child or children also....if he can't fill that position maybe he isn't the man you thought he was and you don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering what if??? You sound like a very sweet person and i think you would make a wonderful mother esp. in dealing with tough situatuions like you are now with your man. If he still is being hard-headed about it...go get a.i.-you won't be cheating on him or adopt. i get upset for you when I think that when he wants it, you are supposed to just lay down and spread 'em but when you want it he acts like you are wanting a damn kidney or something! men!!!:
