I know what you mean, Gayle. However, it is less stress for you, Janet. His loss or gains are his problem to deal with.
I think that you have to "keep your eye on the prize," the prize being the easiest and least stressful environment there is for you and Mom, the better. Let everybody who doesn't want to jump on this train, fall by the wayside.
I still love Diana's idea of hiring someone for the times when you want to get out.
This puts you in control, not having to count on anybody else.
Congrats on your courage and gumption Janet!
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