It seems like hubby and I are rarely on the same "wavelength." Whenever he's in the mood, I'm not. But when I'm in the mood, he's not. We both work full-time, so it's hard to get in the mood at the same time because usually one of us is just too tired. I will have to say more often than not, it is my hubby that wants it and I'm not in the mood than vice versa. It is definately something I really need to work on because the sex is GREAT and I would LIKE to have sex more, but I'm usually just too tired to get in the mood.
Now we are having sex about once a week or 3 times a month at least.