[Janet]

That's true. When we spoke the other night...he was the one that got a little loud. I wasn't angry at all. He asked questions...I answered calmly. I'm pretty much done with the anger so if he wants to talk about it again this weekend we can. I really don't want a divorce...I just want to live as partners...does that make sense? The marital feelings just aren't there anymore. We'll see....either way...I'm at peace with whatever happens.