I understand what you are doing for Gary, Gayle. My father did the same dor my mother, who had rheumatic fever, and lots of heart damage. She died at 56. He gave her whatever she wanted. I also give Jessie whatever I can because of her MS. It's a one day at a time life with MS. She is doing well now, but I see some cognitive changes, like memory issues. I never mention it to her. I don't ecen knows if she is aware of it. It just makes me so sad, but I don't dwell on that. I pretty much go along with whatever she wants, and am supportive of everything she does. She could live like this until she is old and gray, or she could go downhill at any time. She should enjoy every day!!!
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