Ok first off since we are being honest i guess I'll add a little more to my story... Well when me and my hubby first met i was a total and complete nympho(i'm not kidding) I wanted sex all the time we would get finished and he would roll over and i would want it again at least 3 times a night every night(I'm really not kidding) and this went on for about 3 years well my hubby was almost killed in a ATV accident and he was on oxicotton and lortabs for ever well he got addicted to them and the doctor just kept prescribing them to him (he was on them for over a year
) He didn't want anything to do with me during this time he had no sex drive at all (because of the pills) and i felt so inadequate it gave me very low self esteem and it was horrible! Well this helped kill my sex drive and after he got off the pills he started to want sex more well we decided to have another baby so we had sex like rabbits and i got pregnant well...... I do not do well in pregnancy my baby took everything from me and my hormones were shot i hated my husband while i was pregnant and we almost got a divorce because of it he slept on the couch for 9 months i wouldn't even kiss him ( i feel really bad but it wasn't my fault i couldn't help it) Well i had the baby after bed rest and preterm labor and a hard labor he was 3 1/2 weeks early i went into a severe post pardom depression which i still haven't fully recovered from but my point is i have no sex drive at all and he is now like a freaking animal all he thinks about is sex(and i mean 24-7) I can't even hug him without him trying to throw me down and do me right there!! It is a lot easier now that he is on the road but i still have times i don't want sex and we fight severely about it if i say no. I know he loves me and he has needs but it's hard to force yourself when you don't want it. I really do miss my sex life and wish i could be the way i used to be but right now i don't think it will happen and I'm ok with it but my hubby hates it! To pink i hope maybe you can talk to him and seek counseling together and maybe try the testosterone pills for him i am in counseling now trying to work on this myself so good luck and don't lose hope we are here for you.