[Janet]

Since your brother is on the paperwork too, how does that work? You both can make the decisions? What if you don't agree? I didn't mean to be nosey, but with me and my two brothers, it would have been to hard to come to an agreement so Mom left me in charge of all of it.

The advice you rec'd from the others was right on. Make sure they know you are on top of things and won't put up with excuses. If things don't work out there at Clinton House, Mulberry has a great place for people suffering from dementia. You can always switch if they have room.

You're in my thoughts and prayers Linda!