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I would pay off all of our bills including the house. Then I would set some money aside for Emmie. (my dughter) After that I would pocket the money invest it and enjoy it. I wouldn't give my family SQUAT! They have never helped us do a damn thing and there is no way I would lift a finger for them. My DH mother and father have GIVEN cars to all of his brothers and sister but him. one of his brother's was given 2 cars and his sister was given a car wrecked it while drunk and they still bought her another one. THey have also paid for 2 divorces and have also done a ton of stuff with and for the other grandkids excpet mine. My MIL talk several times a week and we still visit. So Ic an't tell you why there are the way they are.
As for my side.... Well my mother has never given me any help to go to school or even get a start in life. Hell, she wouldn't even let me keep my dog when I moved out. The only one who I would think about helping would be my grandmother.
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