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How sad for you all.
Sad for you that you love your son and want only the best for him ~ watching him be with a person that is not good for him ~ sad for your son that he believes he should be with a person who does not respect herself or him ~ sad for your husband who is willing to take time to help Ricky with his truck and is then put off because Ricky would rather spend time with her ~ sad for the whole situation.
I can understand your wanting Ricky to move out. And yes if he wants to live like a adult it is time for him to realize what living like a adult really means.
If he wants to control his life he can't do it living with his parents. I do believe in hard love. That being said.... I hope and pray in doing so he doesn't run to her and spend even more time with her.
I would be careful about what you say. Words can be very hurtful and not easy to forget. Plus it could push him to be with her even more to show how he is his own person, when in fact he is only doing it to show you he can.
I feel so bad for you. Praying for you and your family.
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