I need new pots and pans. Years of abuse by teens has taken a toll on what were a cheap set to begin with.

I've been looking locally (which is VERY limited) and haven't been able to find ANY I would want. They're all light weight aluminum with non-stick interiors that flake off after a little bit of use. I want something that will hold up and be decent to still use 5 - 10 yrs down the road.
So what kind do you have?
Do you like them?
What would you LIKE to have?
HELP me find some decent ones please!