I am very fair also, I don't like being blond because I feel it washes me out... Soooo if I were you I would think about a light brownish red...A warmish color that will give you a little contrast. If you want a change this might be a nice one!!!
Here's me so you see what I mean..(Don't look at the hair cut!) Mine might be darker then you would like...but you can get the idea