Wow! Marilyn, that was beautiful. I really admire and look up to you for being able to sustain a relationship as long as this. I think it helps a marriage if you both have God as your priority, then your marriage, then your children. My husband and I are still newlyweds, but that is the kind of relationship we are trying to build right now. You are a testiment to marriage and that it can still work and there is still hope. God bless you and your husband. And CoNgRaTuLaTiOnS on 33 years of wedded bliss!