[Janet]

Thanks everyone for everything posted. Until recently...maybe it's because I'm getting a little older (not much older....lol) I wanted to know more about this subject. I always wanted to know, but didn't at the same time...does that make sense?

I was afraid if I checked, I would basically be told not to associate with my BIL and that was something I wasn't willing to do and still not. He is a great person and I couldn't ask for a better brother-in-law.