I would be hurt, too! I really think that a lot of people today who have their children before the wedding look ridiculous having these big church weddings with all the frills. I think they should go to the courthouse and get married and then if they want a reception, pay for it themselves. You're doing enough by paying tuition.
I know this sounds harsh, but my 2 sisters had church weddings (no children ahead of time) that they paid for themselves. They knew that my parents really couldn't afford it and didn't mind it a bit.
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