I am envious of all those with Grandkids. My husand and I dream of this day having a little one to spoil.
But....now reading some of the stories my mouth opens wide.
Especially the story from Lynne B. That has got to be soooo hard on you Lynne, and I am very sorry. You have every right not wanting to be around your G-d's if they are not respectuful.
I remember when my first born was a wee little baby. My parents told me flat out that if their G-son was not going to be good or respectful that he was not going to be allowed around them, etc. (My parents were quite stern)
But...I never forgot that and from day one I made it a point to teach my son to be a good boy, respectful, and enjoyable to be around by others. My son a grown man now and I patiently wait for that special day when he tells me I am going to be a Grandma.