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Originally Posted by Janet
I do not like the way my post sounded....  It's not that I don't love my husband, I do, but it's different now. We've had a rough 32 years, not all of it, but a lot. I just don't like all the mushy stuff that would make him think of S....E.....X...!!! I wish I could get over it, but I do most everything around here. After 32 years...it's just another job that I hate and another mess to clean up.
Please don't think I'm awful...unless one lived in my marriage, no one would have any idea how I feel. Yes, I've done counceling, like I always suggest, but it has to be a two way street. I can only help myself. |
Janet,
Only you know what it's like to be living in your shoes through your marriage, and no one is judging you. I can understand the sex thing, (with an X) it was just another chore that I dreaded...but everyone has their own thoughts on Valentines day and as Rebecca mentioned, it's totally a Hallmark day, and another 'holiday' (if you want to call it that) where stores can rope you in to buy more stuff! It's okay not to be a big fan of...really anything you don't want to be a fan of! You can enjoy your yorkies!!! And, you can spend the day/evening however you want to!!
