Hahaha, Janet!
I have to say that I know a lot of men that LIE to their wifes about going!! It's one thing for a single man to go but another for a married man to go and then lie about it!!! GROSS! My bf said that it's a guy thing, and when all the guys wanna go and if he would say that he did want to go cause his girl doesn't want him to then they would all make fun of him. But I TOTALLY agree with Blowry, it doesn't make you feel good. Even though I am totally secure in my relationship, I think it's totally *&^&%$ up to go to these things. At least he told me about it! But then I have to keep hush hush cause his buddies wives can't find out! I told him how upset it made me and he told me he was really sorry he didn't know that. When we first met (started dating) he went to a double stag in Vegas, and I was all for him to have fun at the strip bars (even though it still upset me), but now that we are way more serioius, living together, it's just crap to hear.
I asked, what if women went and watched men sling their shlongs in our face? Men would HATE that. It totally feels like a double standard. And I don't know how it is in your state but here, they can get butt naked!!
Wow, I totalled needed to vent about this. It just totally caught me off gaurd the other night when he took off work to go to a hockey game and spend the night at a buddies but after the game he told me they went to the strip bar. It make me feel sick. Don't get me wrong here, I love my BF dearly, and he is super great to me. I know he loves me. It just shocked me that he one took off work to go out on the town, two, he left me here alone (where I've been sitting since I moved cause I don't have friends here yet) and he told me we were going to stick together (but I know he needs boy time) and three they went to a damn strip bar.
I mean what's the point. To go get all worked up by some hootchie momma's and ultimatley get blue balls? Grrr.
So ladies, what do you think about these places?
