Dh was leaving for the week, so went and told Trevor the name of a treatment center that my oldest dd used (she's been sober for 8+ yrs!)
in case he'd want to go there. Greg told him I am free and willing to drive him there or just to listen if he needs to talk. He promised he will see his dr tomorrow to get a referral and will likely be paying me a visit after.
I hope he does. This brought back the loss of another young man who I loved dearly and lost due to a drunken escapade just 19 months ago. I really don't want to have to face that again, so have to try whatever we can to prevent it now while we have the chance.
It really isn't a selfless thing, our helping him. Neither dh or I can deal with another loss. We haven't fuly healed from the last one yet.
