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RLC12345678 · 03-19-2007, 06:54 AM

Hubby and I were friends with 2 couples who divorced after LESS than 2 years of marriage. I found with these 2, the LAST thing they wanted to do was TALK. They wanted to go out, have fun, meet new people, and not even so much as THINK about their ex. It took quite some time (months and months) before they wanted to talk about it. If it were me, I would not want to go to a friends house and "talk" about my divorce. Maybe you could plan a fun day for you two...like go to lunch and then go to the movies or have a girls night on the town. I would not even bring up the divorce or her ex unless your friend brought it up first and wanted to talk about it. ESPECIALLY since she knows that you know and are somewhat friends with her EX, I would not even bring his name up.

03-19-2007, 06:54 AM	#7
RLC12345678 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,614	Hubby and I were friends with 2 couples who divorced after LESS than 2 years of marriage. I found with these 2, the LAST thing they wanted to do was TALK. They wanted to go out, have fun, meet new people, and not even so much as THINK about their ex. It took quite some time (months and months) before they wanted to talk about it. If it were me, I would not want to go to a friends house and "talk" about my divorce. Maybe you could plan a fun day for you two...like go to lunch and then go to the movies or have a girls night on the town. I would not even bring up the divorce or her ex unless your friend brought it up first and wanted to talk about it. ESPECIALLY since she knows that you know and are somewhat friends with her EX, I would not even bring his name up. __________________ Rebecca "To whom much is given, much is expected." ~Luke 12:48