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I'm sorry you're unhappy about this. I think the only way to deal with it is to be honest and open about how you're feeling, which it does sound like you're doing.

My hubby adores my best friend. They hug and joke around like old pals, and I'm just glad they sincerely like each other! She is much prettier than I am, is very outgoing and fun... but I'm not jealous because I know neither of them are the type of person who would have any respect for themselves if they cheated.

Hubby is an over the road semi driver, so is gone most of the time. He is friends with female drivers who he has called and have called him on the rare time that he's home. Only once did it bother me, and that time it turned out I was right... Greg didn't have shady motives. but the woman did! Once he figured out what she was interested in with him, he told me and cut off ties with her right away. She used to do some modeling, was a college professor, and just seemed to have it ALL going on. Yet she wasn't able to lure Greg into something he didn't feel right about.

I really think either someone is trustworthy or they aren't... if they are, you really have little to worry about. If they aren't, being jealous isn't going to change them one iota.

HUGS
I hope this turns out well for you.