Janet, I'm so sorry that he has turned to drinking. That must be such a hard position for you to be in. You are so strong though and I know that you and your hubby will make it through this, even though it will not be easy. He seems to be SO stressed and worried about the surgery, maybe after it's over he will be back to his normal self again...or even better! Having you take care of him and spending lots of time together may bring the two of you closer than you've ever been before. He is very lucky to have you and I'm sorry that for the moment he has forgotten that. *HUGS*
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