Honey i am so sorry i know how it is to have a pregnancy i to was on bed rest from preterm labor and he ripped all the muscles in my pelvis and back before i had him 3 1/2 weeks early i got severe post pardom depression too it's very hard and as far as you mom and mil as concerned this is your child they have no say so and the sooner you tell them that the better off you'll be you need to say this is my child not yours i have the right to make choices for myself and my child you chose how to raise your children now let me raise mine also about the weight you need to tell you mom that it took 9 months to put it on and it will take 9 months to take it off!!! Not eating is very bad for you your body needs the nutrition to build itself back up you don't need to risk your health right now you need to take care of your child! I feel for you i hate when people try to tell me how to take care of my kids i always tell them did you carry them for 9 months? Did you push them out no i don't think so and you can butt out of my business!!! Mothers are the worst at this but you really need to stand you ground and say something to them i hope it goes better for you and i am here if you need to talk i know what you are going through! Also stay on the meds this is a very hard time and they will help and tell your mom that you wouldn't need to take the pills if she was more supportive!
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