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First of all Congrats on your new baby girl and I 'm glad to hear she is doing well. IMO...First of all I would to talk to my mother about the weight thing. You just had a baby...for crying out loud! I would tell her how she is making you feel. Just because she lost the weight fast (doesnt' sound like she did it in a healthy way either) doesnt' mean that you will! You are 2 different people with 2 different metabolisms. I would ask that if she can't keep her negative comments to herself that you would rather she stay away. I know this would be hard for you but you have a new baby that you need to care for and it doesn't sound like you are getting the support that you need. I am 49 yrs YOUNG! I have 2 beautiful girls, ages 23 and 28. It was very hard for me to take off the weight after each baby. But, you know what! I had these beautiful little babies and I just didn't care. Eventually the weight came off. You really need to talk to these people and let them know how you feel. Good Luck and, you always have us here to support you..
Prayers and hugs to you and your new little girl!
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