[Janet]

I think it's wonderful that you are considering doing this. Not being able to have children myself, adoption is a wonderful choice, believe me.

My opinion is to have some counceling first. Make sure you know yourself and your feelings. It may sound like you could do it at first, but after carrying the baby and bonding, no matter how much you tell yourself you won't, it may be harder than you think to give it up, No matter how much you love your friend.