[Janet]

Something else I thought of . It could very well end your friendship. It's so hard for women to compare parenting styles anyway, I think, because we all think we're right. LOL, but how hard will it be for you to see this child grow with them and you disagree with how they raise him/her? Will you be able to stay quiet? That is why I suggested counceling. You've got to make sure you can handle the BEFORE and AFTER.