It went so much better than I thought. I put the stories I've heard out of my mind & just tried to get to know him for myself. He did not put the baby down the whole time she was awake. He even had her on his lap playing video games with my hubby. He really amazed me how well he did with her. I actually had fun with him as well. We made fun of my hubby together

. Something We do alot but its all joking. (our nicknames for each other are shorty & geek. I'm shorty

).He only stayed from 7pm Saturday until 11:30 am Sunday. I am actually looking forward to seeing him again. Thanks so much for the advice & words of encourage ladies!!! You all rock!!