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Originally Posted by Forgivenmom5
Maybe it would help for the two of you to get away--Maybe on a weekend when your little one is with her Dad
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we really do need that. but i am afraid it will just go back to "normal" when we get home. we work very closely together in our careers and it just makes it that much harder for us.
he adores me. he really does. i wish i adored him as much as he does me. i love him. but i hate to admit that it is not quite as strong as his feelings for me are. i wish it weren't like that. like I said...i love him. but my passion just isn't there anymore. i'm burned out.
dont worry...we won't get divorced. we will try counseling and stuff like that before we ever get divorced. neither of us really believe in it. we believe in doing all we can to fix things.
i just don't know how to make him understand that i feel this way. we have the "talks" about it and he says he doesn't mean to be this way, but he is. and he never does anything to try and change it. and honestly, he tries to turn it back to me whenever he gets an inkling of an opportunity to. so nothing changes. and something really needs to change.