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First I like to welcome you Toodles to 4wt, I haven't been on as much as I like to.
All the lovely ladies have given you good advice. If I may add my two cents lol. Janet has hit it on the head. Don't let you feelings feister, you must communicate. The first year is an adjustment period, if I could think back that far lol. But if you keep your feelings bottled up over the years you will explode and your loving feelings will turn to animosity. Go to counciling now, try to connect , remember the reasons that united the both of you. His eating habits are getting on your nerves, it is a normal feeling , he can work on that, I think its more than that. If everything bothers you. You need to speak to someone alone, if you don't want to go to a marriage counselor.
My nephew got married this past Oct. and they lived together for a year also. She moved out of the house almost a mt. ago and now she is talking about divorcing. My nephew suggested marriage counciling but she wouldn't budge. Now he wants to go on with the divorce, and she is crying the woes. I don't know what is going to happen there, he is a good looking guy and everyone tells him, if you make an attempt at it, do not have children for awhile. Shame people live together and things changes when they get married.
Good luck!
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