[Janet]

Oh Judy, I am so saddened by your post. Please don't give up completely. Every now and then, send her a sweet card just to let her know you are thinking of her. No other comments unless it's just to say you hope she is doing well. Maybe once in a while, send a small bouquet of flowers just to her. You may not get anything in return except the knowledge that you tried. Sometimes we have to do things for those we love and not expect anything in return.