[Janet]

Marilyn is right. We didn't do that and it's not good now after 32 years. Please find a way to resolve this, either through a non-interrupted talk stating your expectations and asking for his, or through counceling with a professional. I would hate for you to be in the position I am in. Life is too short and before you know it, years have gone by. Communicatin, not games is what gets couples through the most difficult times, if love is the foundation.