Thanks for asking Janet.
I've been waiting for Joel to talk to her and he's suddenly become a gutless wonder instead. He went to the races Friday night with a male friend and left Shannon home. Saturday he went to a different friends house and stayed there till Sunday night, leaving her behind again! He seems to think he can ignore her into leaving him! Luckily Katie has taken her to her place to keep her company, so I haven't had to sit here with her feeling bad all weekend.
I tried to talk with him about it last night, and he just really couldn't even explain himself. He's usuallynot afraid to do anything... and breaking up with her respectfully is just too much for him.