[Marilyn]

Tink, the only people you have to please here on this earth are yourself and your hubby. If you both are happy with your situation, then the rest of them need to make sure their households are in as good a shape and leave you alone.

You may decide later that you want to get out and work again, but enjoy where you are while you can.

I wish I could take off for a while, but we need the insurance and retirement savings that I am able to provide. Also, my working takes some of the stress off hubby when the housing market fluctuates.

Don't worry, be happy!!!!