[DianaB]

Janet, I think that it helps to have someone to talk to. All of my friends are friends of both my husband and I so talking to them is really hard to do. My husband is a really wonderful guy but nobody else lives with him so for me to complain it just looks like I really shouldn't have any thing to gripe about. My complaints sound really unreasonable to all those that are around me.

I wanted to talk to everyone on here but, as I said, I'm not crazy doing it on a public forum. I can't tell you how much I've cried and hurt the last few weeks. Things are some better, but it's going to take quite a while to really feel like I'm happy in my marriage. It always seems like two steps forward and three steps back!

Don't quit talking to us about your marriage, Janet. You know that we're concerned for you and care about your feelings. If you need to talk but don't want to on the open forum then send me a pm and we'll talk privately. It helps to have someone who understands.