[Lindsey]

Thanks Lissa, and I agree that he's being a little immature about it. He even admitted last night that there's no reason we should even be fighting about a dog. I asked if I changed everything that upset him, would he find something new to fight about? He said he didn't know. It seems to be just how he is. I know in his past relationships there was a lot of fighting... I never thought it was because of him but maybe it is. Even he admitted maybe he's just the screwed up one in every relationship. So I said "Do you even want to be with me or is there some reason you're trying to make me mad because it seems intentional" and he said he wants to be with me more than anything, and he wants us to be happy together and stop fighting. I asked if I'm worth putting up with my dog. He couldn't answer. Layla's only a year and a half old, she's going to be with me still for a long time. He suggested maybe we just hang out away from my house so I said "Well what if this works out? In 10 years would we still be hanging out away from my house?" I just don't understand this at all. At the start he loved her and played with her all the time and talked about how cute she was... Now he's trying to make her scared of him so she doesn't come near him... he said he hates when she's even in the same room.

I just met him for lunch because I've been having a really bad day at work, I was so stressed out I even had some tears overflow on my way to meet him. He gave me a hug and a kiss and talked to me about it until I felt better. That's the part of him I've fallen for, that's how he is 90% of the time.