I want to be remembered for seeing value in teens that others have given up on.
I've taken in several kids who needed a home.
I learned this from my parents who did the same.
I've had parents sign over custody to me just for the asking. To me, kids are NOT a disposable commodity and whether they're yours or mine, they're welcome at my table. I don't expect a thank you, but admit I got misty-eyed when laying in CCU, 11 of "my kids" came traipsing in together to check on me. The nursing staff had asked me how many children I had because only immediate family was allowed; so I told them I had lost count but that anyone admitting to being one of mine should be let in.
If nothing else, I hope they remember this about me and continue to do the same.