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Originally Posted by AngieDoogles
Maybe you could write him a letter and really pour your heart out to him. Sometimes our men don't realize the importance of what we say to them, but if you wrote a letter, you could really highlight what the problem is and how it makes you feel.
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That's how I do it when talking gets me nowhere. A letter can be read alone and the reactions aren't bounced off on you. He can absorb what you say in his own time, and then when you do talk about it, there's a lot less defensiveness and, hopefully more communication.
It also does take time to get accustomed to babies, and real life. Marriage is a lot of work and has lots of ups and downs. Relax and enjoy the baby. Let him do what he needs to do for a while. You'll never have this time with the baby again. They grow so fast. You can talk to him any time!
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