Like the ladies have said, Angie, you are a wondeful daughter, and you have a wonderful mom, i agree with Gina, that you compliment each other.
Debbie, i'm not trying to push you into doing anything, but really, maybe you should try the program "look good - feel good" it's a fact, that when you look good, you feel a lot better about yourself, plus, you will get to meet other people that are in a similar situation, that you can exchange ideas with, and talk to.
It will be good for you, it really will.