I've truly never understood the habitually late habits of adults. That is of course in case of an emergency, etc.
It was ingrained in my head as a young teen that times were set for a reason. If i didn't meet the time required I paid the crime. (always two weeks of restriction)
Trust me, I hated restriction...LOL But now as an adult. I am NEVER late anywhere I go. And luckily my husband understands too the importance of time.
I feel it is nothing but rude and inconsiderate for others to have to wait on those who are late. It's disrecspectful that those who arrive late don't have respect for those whom are waiting. It says to the person waiting "you don't matter". Urghghghh this one always get's me angry, LOL
I wish I had magic answers for you Angie and do hope that the two of you come up with some plans that might resolve this problem. If you have the magic button, and pushed it transforms your husband to do what you really need him to do...Can I borrow it please?