[Marilyn]

Lindsey, we are here for you, and we do have lots of life experience with relationships and we do care very much for you and are very concerned about you. I really think you need counseling. You have issues that you need to work out with someone who can give you an objective viewpoint and help you sort things out.

You are a very worthwhile person. You need to learn to stand on your own two feet and not be defined by who you are with. You need to find ways to enjoy life on your own without depending on someone else to be with you all the time.

You need to be able to say goodbye to a man who does not share you goals and interests. He is setting too many priorities over you. Why would you want to spend the rest or even the next few months of your life with someone who treats you like he does. He's sweet one minute and cold the next.

You deserve more than this!!!!!! Please find a counselor to talk to. Maybe a pastor could help, or could advise who you can go to. We all need a little help from time to time.

Know that we are always here for you and that I'm writing this out of care and concern for you wellbeing.